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March 16, 2024 For this date I got invited to PlantHouse  in Arlington, VA to a terrarium-making workshop. If you don’t know what that...

February 17, 2024 I met #35 at Punch Bowl Social  in Arlington, VA. By this time I’m already familiar with the place so although I like...

January 21, 2024 I was turned off by #34 the minute I walked into the restaurant. I’m not saying he was a catfish, but it was obvious he...

February - March 2024 Ivory knew I was looking for a job, so the day after we agreed to stop all communication, he sent me a position he...

January 2024 A week after our New Year's conversation, he called me, and like we agreed… he updated me on a few things that had happened...

Not a lot of time had passed before Ivory and I had spoken again, I’m talking a few days. Honestly, it was as if the conversation had...

October 14th, 2023 Date #33, we’ll call him Ivory being that he was from Ivory Coast, was the first guy I dated “seriously” after...

Title explanation:  These next three guys are the only ones from my whole dating series that I cannot recall their name off the top of my...

April 27, 2023 Around this time is when I started therapy. There wasn’t a specific reason or event that led me to it, just needing...

Fall/Winter 2022 #28 was my second heartbreak since moving, and took me the longest to get over (word on the street is I’m still trying...

August 6, 2022 Date #26 was my third first date in a row. But unlike the first two, this one ended right after the date… sort of. He was...

August 5th, 2022 Cameron (Date #24) and Date #25 (nicknamed Rain) are two guys I dated at the exact same time which almost never...

August 4th, 2022 “Whoever gets there first shares their location,” Date #24 texted me. We agreed to meet up at the Washington Monument...

Author’s Note: In no way should Date #23 have his own post but the next two dates will have their own and I wanted to continue keeping...

October 2023 I started dating someone else, again… and was more into him than I was Syre. Of course I’m posting him, us going out, what...

January - March 2023 Me and dude I was really feeling (Date #28) stopped dating. Yes I was real hurt over this one, but this forced me...

February 2022 Date #22 is probably the one who unlocked my want for a relationship. Imma tell yall this story, and you’re gonna ask...

April 2, 2022 This date is what made me realize why the hood dudes had the girlies in a chokehold. This man didn’t do anything...

February 26th, 2022 Date #18 lived far. The day of our date I was a good hour late because my cousin (who was out of town) had some...

January 30th, 2022 Date #16 was a very spur of the moment date. I was getting off work some time in the evening and I told myself I...